Most men can talk the talk, but don’t have much success with women. Dubious internet marketing on ”How to meet women” creeps the net. Lots of contradicting theories and pick up systems cloud the minds of men to the point of overload. They get confused, make mistakes, and in most cases repel women than attract them.
Most men who walk up to women have such mental chaos that it makes them exude failure. Most men don’t succeed with women; not because they are completely terrible, ugly, or haven’t been intimate before. No. Men don’t succeed because they half a false belief of what they think women find attractive. In today’s article, I’m going to share with you 3 Tips Every Man Can Use To Improve His Attractiveness With Women. By the time you are done reading, you’ll not only know how to be more attractive with women, but it will also break some old beliefs you have about them.
1. Your Looks Aren’t The Problem, Your Behaviour Is.
Women spend a lot of time on their appearance – tanning, makeup, hair, nails, etc. They do this because they WANT men to feel attracted to them. Unfortunately, men have appeared to adopt the same idea. Men are more concerned about their appearance in the eye of women than women actually care. Yes, a women likes a groomed man. But a women doesn’t like a man with the same insecurities as herself. Women really aren’t as shallow as guys. These day’s men are tanning their skin, wearing make-up, dressing in expensive clothing, thinking this is what women want. Wrong. Women are more concerned about how you hold yourself as a man. She’s looking at your behaviour, whether she knows it or not. A mans need for physical perfection is an inherent flaw when it comes to attracting the opposite sex. Yes, women like a groomed man, and having a strong jaw line may give you some edge. However, any good looking man can spoil his chances with women just by his behaviour. And guess what, women HATE a man who’s full of himself. If David Beckham spoke with a shallow voice, got nervous in the presence of women, and started to stumble upon his words, do you think his looks are going to save him? You might say yes, but I’m betting women will feel a little different about him being the ideal man.
2. Being A Tough Guy Doesn’t Turn Women On.
Here’s a question for you: Who has slept with more women, The Rock, or Russell Brand? The answer is Russell Brand every time ( a guy most men would mistaken for sometimes gay and feminine). Yeah, he’s slept with over 8,000+ women. Now, this example may not seem fair. After all, Dwayne Johnson (The Rock) is a cool guy. Both have strong personalities. But what we are demonstrating here is that muscles don’t make a difference to whether you are successful with women or not. Being big, masculine and strong, doesn’t mean much, if again, your behaviour is flawed. Working out 5 days a week and walking around like a tough guy, it actually repels most women. She’d rather know that you workout because you have a standard for your health and body, not because your trying to impress her with your big guns. You’ll often find men walking around in tight t-shirts, or a vest top in the winter, all to try and impress women and attract them. It doesn’t work.
3. How You Act Is More Important Than What You Say
Most guys are overloaded with ‘pick up’ knowledge that they have scripted lines for what they want to say to a women. They think picking up women is about gathering information, but they are so wrong. In fact, what you say is least important than to the way you behave. You’ll see guys pull women in minutes because of the way they act, not because they are asking them questions and are trying to be a Casa Nova of the club. Most guys are just good conversation starters, and find themselves in the friend zone before they even know it. It doesn’t take long for most guys to lose their girl to a guy who acts like he don’t give a damn. And the reason women are attracted to guys who act like they don’t give a crap is because they aren’t carrying emotional insecurity. They are demonstrating behaviours that are telling women, ‘Hey, I’m having fun, I don’t care with you like me or not”. As a result, they are successful. You don’t need to come up with the prefect thing to say. Most women are thinking about what to say to you.
So, if you want to be more attractive to women then you need to start working on your overall behaviours. Because so many men live in reaction (men not knowing who they are are, what they value, what they are appreciative for and how their emotions work) it’s no wonder why they fail with women. If you are a cool guy and say some dumb stuff, you will get away with it. You don’t need to be “doing stuff” all the time to attract the girl, you just need to be cool. What you want to do is get in touch with who you are and how you naturally act. If you do this, then you’ll be successful. Don’t forget to check out our benefits of sex article next.